how about this perspective. maybe like a lot of women out there, she is not really marring him for who he is but what he can provide her. unfortunately Katy, there are way too many women out there who do not think like you do and are only interested in being taken care of a certain way and want a certain life sytle. she already knows he will be gone at least half the year. well at least its a perspective.
Were you there in Georgia that night? Do you know what happened? Do you know Ben personally? Do you know the girl? Do you know anything? O wait you went to U of A, nope you don't know anything. How can you say all this when he was never accused of anything. This is a sports page not a girly gossip magazine where we all cry together and talk about what a jerk we think Big Ben is.
She's thinking about getting paid especially if she drops a kid. Children are the best extortion material available and broads use them as a weapon for more money.