Embracing embracing: man-hugs are on the rise
Dec 9, 2014, 3:50 AM | Updated: 3:50 am
Indeed athletes have long been on the leading edge of what some are now saying is becoming a general trend — men embracing embracing.
Young millennials have “wrapped their arms around a long-term trend” of hugging, writes Samantha Melamed for The Philadelphia Inquirer. “It's also triggering awkward moments, as hug-happy millennials encounter older men who have long measured their machismo by their palm-crushing handshakes.”
She reported that more hugging between heterosexual men is tied to research that cultural homophobia is dropping at a rapid rate, according to Mark McCormack, researcher and author of “The Declining Significance of Homophobia.”
And male athletes are especially comfortable embracing. “Watch ESPN for a few hours, and there's a fair chance you'll encounter lots of big men embracing, especially after a big play or a victory,” Douglas Brown of The Denver Post writes.
Plus, a large body of research tells us that hugging has all sorts of benefits. We know that well-hugged babies are far less likely to be stressed as adults, according to researchers at Emory University in Atlanta and McGill University in Montreal, CNN reported. And lonely, hug-less people are more likely to develop heart disease due to stress, according to a study done at Ohio State University's college of medicine.
As psychotherapist Virginia Satir famously said, “We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth.”
And if you're a man wary of hugging other men, wikiHow outlines the process. “Consider the occasion and the relationship in determining when to hug. Generally, the closer your relationship and/or the more monumental (like scoring a soccer goal) the event, the greater the likelihood that a hug will be appropriate,” wikiHow helpfully explains.